Normally, when we think of romance, we think of the man showing up on a woman’s doorstep with a dozen roses, and then taking her out to dinner to expensive restaurant. I would like to question these dating tips for men.
There are many ways to spark the romance. Flowers are always a good idea. Sending your wife flowers unexpectedly and asking her for a date is a good way to spark the ไข่สั่น. Gifts of lingerie and spa passes are also great ways to romance your wife. Trips and dinner, movies and flowers are fine, but you can’t do it every day. There is only one real thing to keep the romance alive in your marriage, and it’s the simple use of touch and words. Words carry more impact than any rose and can be just as sweet.
Lord Byron and all those old romantic poets had it right. Bryon wrote: She walks in beauty like the night of cloudless climes and starry skies, and all that best of dark and bright meets in her aspect and her eyes.” Maybe people don’t speak that way anymore, but let’s face it, it still works. Telling your wife she walks in beauty like the night can’t hurt either.
In one national woman’s magazine, a survey showed that almost all the women thought that a gift of flowers for no reason at all was extremely important to feel more connected to their partner romantically. That nationwide (U.S.A.) survey was conducted by Bruskin/Goldring Research in 1996. It found that nine out of 10 women (94 percent) say that flowers mean the most when the woman received them as a surprise.
This factor made Meg Ryan, the romantic comedy queen in late 80s / early 90s. Her two major performance in ‘When Harry Meet Sally’ and ‘Sleepless In Seattle’, paired with two great leading men, Billy Crystal and Tom Hanks, was a major tour de force. In both movies, she ‘clicked’ with both of them, which gave the movies critical and commercial success.
On your part in the bid to rekindling the romance and passion in your marriage you must decide that you will be committed to daily romantic gestures. What is the best time to start this? The best time is today and possibly now.
Last but not least, she should carry a Red Sheep with her. This could be in terms of a toy, or key chain, or some kind of ornament. Why Red Sheep? Because Red Sheep represents Fire Sheep. As I mentioned earlier, the Fire Sheep year is the best year in terms of romance luck for her. I hope Jeannie will find Mr. Right soon.